Meet a New Guy Online, Great, Now What?
Meet a new guy, now what?
Everyone in your circle of friends have been encouraging you to get online and mingle, and you have actually met a guy that you like. The problem is that you have no clue how to proceed from here. Keep reading because you are about to find out what steps you can take to make sure that you do not blow it with this new guy.
Guys are normally the ones that will make the first move and pursue you. All you need to do is to make sure that he knows that you like him. From then on if he likes you back, he will be the one talking to you. Men like to do the chasing, so do not take this away from him.
If you are unsure what to ask him and how to proceed, wait to see what kind of questions he is asking you, and ask him the same questions back. You can add a bit of you in conversation, so that he can have a glimpse of you and be able to see your personality a little bit.
The whole point of chatting is so that you can learn a little bit about someone, so that you can decide if they are worth your time or not. As he asks questions, he will be trying to gather some things about you so that he can decide whether you are someone that he would like to get to know even more. You also should be doing the same, gathering information on him that will help you decide if you will want to meet with him or not. One word of advice, do not be too forthcoming with all the information, because you want to do this one on one. Answer him what he asks for, but give him incomplete information.
If you like him, you probably want to move past the emails to where you can meet in person and really get a taste of how he is face to face.
The problem with online dating is that women make the mistake of giving out too much too soon, and by the time they are supposed to meet with a guy, it does not happen because the anticipation is out. Do not let that happen to you. Stick with the brief answers, and if you have chatted to the guy for a week going on for two weeks, it is time to meet.
You obviously want to give him a chance to ask you to meet but what if he does not step up to that and ask you? Then you ask him!
If you are both interested in chatting to each other, then the next step is to meet and take it further. When you ask him, he will either respond enthusiastically and want to meet or he will have sort of an excuse. If he is not prepared to meet with you, my advice would be to start chatting to other guys, unless you are looking a chat buddy.
This is online, and you can stop chatting to someone if you feel that it is not going anywhere. Do not be nervous about the process, and after you do it for a bit, you will be very good at it. You do not have to get stuck with the guys, just be yourself and go with the flow. There are plenty of guys online, and along the line you will be able to meet one who is excited to meet with you.